@Tetiana you're absolutely right. Analytical is the wrong word choice. I should have gone with cautious or guarded because he is insecure. I can't blame him though. His experience so far makes his insecurities very real. What Garam needs to hear from Jaehyuk is thoughtfulnes and understanding not another chaotic scheme. Jaehyuk can provide reassurance. Demonstrate that he sees Garam's fears and that they can take their time coming out as a couple. Jaehyuk started as a homophobic fu** boy absolutely unserious and irresponsible. Then announces he's gay and now he's not. He's often caught up in the moment and says or does whatever. Why would someone as cautious and anxious as Garam trust that Jaehyuk could be discreet or understand the real cost of coming out? I mean Jae's whole approach here is to come full circle to fu** buddies. He isn't even giving Garam a chance to step up and take responsibility. Jae isn't giving Garam space to figure out his sh** and come to Jae and be accountable. Because he's afraid that Garam won't come to him. Jaehyuk has always been insecure about Garam's feelings and that Garam doesn't return his affection equally. They are always at odds because their fears don't align and they don't know how to to meet each other in the middle. I think Jae should have let Garam alone. I think Garam would return to Jae because he's genuinely inlove with him.