@Lis "Bothered" aka frustrated (childish).
ppl luv to talk because it's social. Do you really think your mom always wait for you or your consent to talk about you ? That's plain delusion, or deluding yourself with the pretexte "I can't controle their tongue at my convenience so I'll flee" ==> fragile narcissism (not to be confused with grandiose narcissism).
You're still free to abandon yourself to such narcissist tendency but you're also free to bear all the consequences that comes with it (neverending craving for validation, insecurity each time you witness someone else being praised in front of you, making your relatives suffer, etc).
ppl luv to talk because it's social. Do you really think your mom always wait for you or your consent to talk about you ? That's plain delusion, or deluding yourself with the pretexte "I can't controle their tongue at my convenience so I'll flee" ==> fragile narcissism (not to be confused with grandiose narcissism).
You're still free to abandon yourself to such narcissist tendency but you're also free to bear all the consequences that comes with it (neverending craving for validation, insecurity each time you witness someone else being praised in front of you, making your relatives suffer, etc).
