Just had my 8 grade graduation fine and all everyone clapped for their friends but no body clapped for me (bc I stopped being friends with the fake ppl) I'm I childish for felling bothered by it?
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@Lis don't mind that, that's the reason I didn't go to mine, fake people don't deserve your attention or feelings.
@Lis congratulations dear for your graduation also I am the same as you totally but who are we judge who is fake or not, here's my suggestion "Live your life worried free" Don't take the authority of a judge and judge others off their personality honestly, it's one life live it! And if you feel sad you don't have friends then make it! Even as fake, humans are socializing species, it's fine to have group but be close to only true friends that you find! And at last once again congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!! 🥰
@Rick D. Roll thank you I needed that:)
@KissOnFerris thank you so much! I thought I was childish because I will never see these people again I'll forget about it and them
@Lis Fankly stpeaking, why would ppl clap with you when you don't even bother to build (put effort in) a relation with them ? And yet you're saying you're frustrated ? Not sth you wish to hear but aren't you the fake one ?
Think harder : actually you say you don't want to be friends yet you also say you crave the appearance of friendship. Or rather the attention it draws. You're probably eperiencing some light narcissist spur.
Time to work on yourself because narcissism never make ppl happy -- be it their surroundings but even the narcissist themself, as they're addict to their narcissium and can't get enough of it.
Think harder : actually you say you don't want to be friends yet you also say you crave the appearance of friendship. Or rather the attention it draws. You're probably eperiencing some light narcissist spur.
Time to work on yourself because narcissism never make ppl happy -- be it their surroundings but even the narcissist themself, as they're addict to their narcissium and can't get enough of it.
@Ryip welp, here we go again.
Lemme comment so I can read the mad comments they reply to you once I wake up lmfaoo
Lemme comment so I can read the mad comments they reply to you once I wake up lmfaoo
@Lis you get a graduation for graduating 8th grade?
@Ryip I never said I was fristruated by it just a bit bothered and why I'm I the fake one when I literally stopped talking to them because they were talking sh** behind my back making everything abt themselves and making me feel insecure? And it's not like I wanted them to clap for me etc I just felt bothered that I was the only one out of the 300 or 600 student there that didn't get no clap or anything other than my mom
@12341234 I went to the graduation I'm not sure what you mean
@Lis "Bothered" aka frustrated (childish).
ppl luv to talk because it's social. Do you really think your mom always wait for you or your consent to talk about you ? That's plain delusion, or deluding yourself with the pretexte "I can't controle their tongue at my convenience so I'll flee" ==> fragile narcissism (not to be confused with grandiose narcissism).
You're still free to abandon yourself to such narcissist tendency but you're also free to bear all the consequences that comes with it (neverending craving for validation, insecurity each time you witness someone else being praised in front of you, making your relatives suffer, etc).
ppl luv to talk because it's social. Do you really think your mom always wait for you or your consent to talk about you ? That's plain delusion, or deluding yourself with the pretexte "I can't controle their tongue at my convenience so I'll flee" ==> fragile narcissism (not to be confused with grandiose narcissism).
You're still free to abandon yourself to such narcissist tendency but you're also free to bear all the consequences that comes with it (neverending craving for validation, insecurity each time you witness someone else being praised in front of you, making your relatives suffer, etc).