Comment by Studsol on LesboJo

@Studsol I disagree. I think the pace that they're repairing the relationship is good. They are going through the details of their problems that led to the break up. Some readers are impatient because they already know that this is Ji Youyan's 2nd life and that she died from heartache in her first life. To readers, that's all they need to be convinced that Ji Youyan is very serious about starting again and not reliving the same mistakes in her 1st life.

However, Jing Xiu is still unaware of all that. All she knows is that Ji Youyan hurt her a lot during their relationship and never tried to find her again to reconcile. Remember, when she was in the ICU, Ji Youyan didn't even contact her until days later. Jing Xiu has a lot of trauma from the old relationship. She needs more reassurance to move forward in the relationship again. She has never stopped loving Youyan but that doesn't automatically mean that they should be in a relationship.

It's a delicate relationship that needs a lot of time and effort to repair.

@Studsol Look, I agree and disagree at the same time. But, this story for me at least is well written. I think the pacing is good. I think this just needed one more deep push and enough assurance from yanyan.