@I love Tian Guan Ci Fu honestly had a similar issue few years back and i just invited that person for a honest conversation, even thought i knew shes not mature enough to quite get it, i just told her she was too much and told her about things that annoy me. At first she went bonkers but later on she never ever tried to do anything unpleasant to me...so ig thats my advice. Just make sure that ure the one ready for the conversation since ull be leading it. Lol good luck anyways!
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