Comment by pyrolynx71 on du badu badu

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@du badu badu jealousy in a romantic relationship is not a good thing. it's very bad, actually. it can lead to abusive behaviour. portraying it as something to be happy about in a ficitonal story is bad for young girls who've never had a relationship before (and even older women who've never had a relationship before) because they'll think it's good for their boyfriend to be jealous of every single man they talk to.

she's talking about hiring an extremely qualified candidate and even gets mad at him for discriminating against the guy, but it's portrayed as cute that he's jealous. imagine a girl in real life whose boyfriend gets mad at her every time she talks to a male coworker, even if it's just about work or small talk. the boyfriend will either yell at the girl who did nothing wrong, which in some cases escalates to violence, or he starts harassing the other guy, which can also escalate into violence. either way, the boyfriend doesn't trust her to stay in the relationship and assumes she'll cheat on him with every guy she meets.

tl;dr stop telling girls that a jealous boyfriend is good. your boyfriend should not control you. you should be able to have friends (and coworkers) who are male.
sorry for wrong spelling my phone keyboard is dumb (it's not my fault i swear)

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@pyrolynx71
have you been in a relationship ? the way you are thinking is kinda immature imo. not all type of jealousy is bad. my man said "i trust you but i dont trust men bcs i know men", there's a reason for a man to be jealous of another men bcs they know their pack, if my man didnt control me then i wouldnt control myself, then the men i met will think i'm giving them a chance, they will act beyond line

you need to know why they act the way they are, some men are full of ego, they abuse rather physically or verabally, some can act the same but others perceive it differently, everyone has different characteristics and made different choices even under same situations, for you to think that jealousy in men to be bad generally isnt so thoughtful

when it is in drama, the women who fell in love with a guy and get jealous he go out with other women then trying to make him fall in love with her, they'll see it as cute and brave girl but if a man does it, they'll call it obsessive posessive stalker, how can you judge an act if you're not involved in it

i dont tell girls that jealous bf is good, i just said most mahwa ml are lile that and if my girls tell me about her relationship, i'll tell her to also think in his position first bfr you think why you face the struggle in relay

relay is complicated to just generally said a jealous bf is not good, bcs that bf will be your husband if you were meant to be, there's a wide range of occasions where jealousy happen and not all of them leads to same consequences