Comment by goofball on Ella

@Ella   the ab-sed becomes the ab-ser could definitely be true for him. BUT he litterly sa'd Kim dan and has verbally, financially and physically ab-sed him as well. It's no excuse for anything he has done. My guess is that he wanted to become famous to fill the void in himself. It's kinda crazy how normalised this stuff is in bl, especially because of the amount of like 13 year olds that read this kinda stuff and think it's normal and don't see the red flags in realtionships. No hate to you through, I just don't think we should be saying he isn't a bad person for what he's done to Kim.