Comment by [deleted] on Rifath04

@Rifath04 sounds like he had some serious issues and was not in a very good place. I'm sorry that you found yourself meeting up with such a high asking red flag? It sounds like a pretty bad situation that should have ended the very moment you realized he was in a gang and not in the best mental state. I'm not saying it's your fault and you should have ended it so you desurve everything, but from what I've heard you both have some issues but he is definitely a walking red flag. I'm not sure if you are a red flag, in which cas the situation would change, but if you aren't someone who's also going through a ton of things similar to that, you probably should have just recognized that you were too good for him and left as soon as possible. That's what I take from what you just said, thanks for the added info it clarifies some things. Though, saying that to someone online does feel a little wierd, like I'm your therapist or something and you'll actually take anything I say into account lol 
best of luck in your future relationships, or at least more luck that that because yikes 😰