Comment by Tigre Triste on strawberrycream

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Tigre Triste
Tigre TristeGeneral·4 days ago
@strawberrycream Jae said he will do anything for Garam, Garam has uncomfortable with that, he has a lot of trauma and was scared (not excusing the way he didn't communicate), Jae was being impulsive and didn't listen to Garam's fears either. Garam got brave enough to be selfish and tell Jae he loves him. You are painting Garam to be super toxic, he's not perfect but you misinterpret him in a way that is not fair. Go read something else if you think the writing is so bad.

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@Tigre Triste when jae was doing everything for him, garam didn't like that. when he was working on himself, found a job, making finally better desicions for himself, garam didn't like that too cause he was jealous of him working in that field etc. that is simply very confusing behaviour from someone who loves you. you would have gone mad because nothing you do is right:D i didn't say garam was extremely toxic or worst character, i said they don't match, they see things VERY differently. and this was not a progress, he just came back, which is bare minimum if he loves him. and i didn't paint jae like a complete 10/10 Green flag cause he have done stupid things too. but i was talking about this angst and how it turned out
@Tigre Triste What you call "trauma", I see as rather "self-focused" personality. Feeling insecure? - Do not start a relationship which demands considering your partner's stance on many occasions. Garam treated Jaehyuk for granted, till he realized Jaehyuk is not there for him anymore. Got cold feet and a change of heart? That's a realisation of love in your opinion? And then, "don't go abroad, stay with me" - that's love? No way in life.