@x** I would root for them if both wanted the same thing, but you seem to forget that even though Ian loves him, he's doing everything he can to escape. He just got a fake ID to make sure that Tj can't find him. And Tj for his part is doing everything in his power to stop him from running away. They're not equals in this relationship, one of them has freedom to choose to stay in it, the other one does not.
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