what in the world will you expect from a father psychological stressed for over 10 years suffering day and night from the same trauma literally warning his son continuously to please not to go over the sea his biggest fear to loose him too, what the son does not only he goes he returns way to late (just imagine the utter fear during that time the father must suffered) and even after that is pushing the fact on his face again and again that he will go again (he surely can go again to retrieve, but is the kid so childish that he doesn't understand how to deal? Or his father? That if he will act like that again obviously the dad will take strict steps then) What do you think as helpless as a father that man can do more huh? If your son is not even responding to your words? Getting vanished in the sea and all. Obviously makes sense why his last resort as a parent was to take any extreme step to prevent his child from future harm and addition to his trauma he went on to that level. His actions were not done in motive to abuse his kids which is really extremely childish if you people think, it was his extreme fear and safety for his son the only family he wanna protect. Psychologically and basic sense wise it do make sense why the parent took that step , being unjustified action is one thing but no where u got the right to call his fear, love , trauma, and emotions in name of a****hole. If that father didn't gave a da** of his son going to sea coming late and going again afterall the past incedente then calling those names will make more sense cause then he would be a father with bare care and love for his son's life.