@Lelouch vi Britannia Interesting conversation.
I think you are very strong in argumentation and quite precise and sharp in your statements. I do like it, to be honest.
You would probably be a brilliant prosecutor if you wanna be the one. Really.
Only... there is no court here.
You actually do everything right, but.. it seems you forgetting just one thing:
you're kinda killing the one who is already down.
'Stay' was just really hurt.
Why?
1. She got rejected by a guy she liked.
2. She got rejected bc of her best friend (which is probably more painful/shameful than if it was just someone else).
3. She realized that her bestie doesn't care about her enough to even tactfully leave out a little fun with an unknown(!) guy who was her special intrest. In that situation there is really kinda taste of betrayal, and it's probably too bitter to just swallow and to pretend that everything is still nice and sunny. Mh?
Yes, you are right, no one owns anyone, I totally agree with you, but.. maybe you noticed that Stay was really the only one who got hurt. Not her friend, not that lad (whoever he was).
So.. if someone is in that kind of triple pain shıt and just venting abt it in some anonymous forum, they're just trying to ease that pain a little, that's all.
If you know what I'm talking about.
So.. I guess what I'm trying to say now is..
that there's no point in being so ruthless.
Or smth like that.