@Banana_ duck Leave them, I did and I'm happy. They were making me sad in the name of jokes when ever I speak. I was crying at home, so much depressing times. I was arguing with my parents. They were worried about me so they even wanted to change my school. So in summer break I stopped my friendship with them I couldn't find close friends for a year I was feeling so lonely but there was noone who is making fun of me so I wasn't at least sad anymore. But I started to feel like no one loves me. I was having hard time while approaching new people. Then one day I asked to a girl to having the lunch together I remember that my voice was trembling while asking. Anyways I found a new friend who was kind to me. I wasn't expecting something from her in the first but we got closer. And she introduced me her friends then I feel more confident and I started to making new friends on my own. I was shy, anxious and introvert now I have friends that they care about me now I feel like I'm the leader of them. They're always asking me while doing something. I'm so glad that I didn't stay friends with them yes I struggled but I had wonderful friendships in my last year. After graduation we still are meeting up. And I have been friends with that lunch girl for 3 years. If I didn't ask her in that day I was someone else today. Sorryy for yapping a lot but I wanna help to people who has been having similar situations I hope you will be okay 🥹💕
@Banana_ duck I don't like this types of friends they are just using you trust me I was in same position few years ago and to be honest I never feel happy to be with them I always do whatever makes them happy they are so toxic and I am stupid I didn't have self respect at that time and in end i am tired of that and think why I am only one who get hurt in end why they suddenly stop talking to me what i did wrong so i stop talking to them and now I am glad I do that and you should do that too don't feel bad for them they don't deserve you they are only thinking about themselves and how much they can hurt you by using friendship these type friendship are always toxic they are two face bit**** and they always blame you for everything so don't feel bad for them if they aren't talking to you you did nothing wrong you can make better friends who arent self obsessed toxic childish and we are also here listen to you you can share us...
@Banana_ duck I think a good way to find good friends is to be yourself all the time. Stay in a zone which you find comfortable and you'll discover like minded people. You'll be comfortable with them from day one. You don't need to pretend to be liked. They know who you are and that's the reason they stayed. You will not get entangled with those you're mutually uncomfortable with.
I was a ppl pleaser till my one bf of 6years started to distance herself, she wasn't bad but made new friends and stopped spending time w me, didn't even introduce me to them and acted like she new etc which was weird as she used tell me all things. I had a glow up thingy after that. I had almost no friends coz classes changed and there were only 4 ppl from my old class here. I never let myself be treated like a last option after that.
tea cup now they are not talking to me 😭 😔
