@yoohanz you’re absolutely right but the problem here is that the top intentionally starts „this relationships” to make other person happy and by doing that it’s normal that his partners just fall for him, because the feel safe, comfortable and happy. But the thing is he is doing that for his satisfaction only, he does not feel love nor even sense of need to depend on his partner- that means he doesn’t really know what a relationship is, he is just phrasing it that way because that what he wants in the end, but he just can’t feel it, that why he is so obsessed with them. I think that’s not normal but a problem which need solving