@guccibanana bro doesn't understand consent. It makes a massive difference whether Beom asked for it or not and he did ask for it. He was scared at first but when he realised it was Dawon, he calmed down. Chill the he** out. There's a whole thing within the bdsm community where people who have trauma from SA actually enjoy participating in Consensual Non Consensual (obviously not every single sa victim is into that but it's still a thing). People with unresolved trauma still get to decide what happens with their bodies. Beom enjoyed his previous public show so the fact that it was in a public space didn't bother him, it was the fact that he was left with no control over who came and screwed him. When Dawon came along, that resolved that problem because he knows and likes him
Don't tell anyone you saw me here I STAN MANY GROUPS BUT SKZ ARE MY CURRENT ULT (๑♡⌓♡๑) level 18 I wanna get me a Sangwoo one day
@Giaaa Sigh...lol I am calm...I don't know why people are triggered when I'm merely sharing an opinion here.
I was not talking about consent with regards to Beom and Dawon. It was with regards to the public shoot in that unfamilar and sketcy environment. He blindly accepted this shoot without his "boss" explaining it to him what the criteria was. Had Beom known, he would likely have not done it or would have felt really uncomfortable/scared about doing it (hence why he started crying when he realized his body was made out to be a public toilet). He "consented" because it was Dawon on the other side of the wall true. But I just found it insensitive on Dawon's part why he would put someone he likes/have feelings for in an situation that made him look like a public toilet and degraded him (intentionally or not). At then end of the day, he was objectified as hole where you couldn't even see his face, despite the fact that this is his job.
If you look at Beom's history, he didn't want to do p0** livestreaming in the first place. His passion lies in art (sculpting). So this livestreaming started from a place of need not want (need to pay off his debt). Yes, your body is your responsibility and people with unresolved trauma can do what they want with it...however, there is a healthy and unhealthy/avoidant way of doing it. BDSM (in this case degredation kink) is romanticised in society (books, media, friend circle) but it stems from unresolved trauma. If you care to understand the less glamorous side of BDSM, research and you will see the psychological links of BDSM and trauma (often childhood trauma). And people who want to practice or engage in something unhealthy will do anything and everything to justify doing it (same with alcohol, drugs, sx addiction etc).
I'm speaking from experience of talking with friends who practice BDSM and who are abused by their partners but also are dealing with lots of internal trauma. I do understand this is fiction, but reading this gives me a different perspective.
