Tomorrow is my birthday and my parents favouritism towards my sister isn't even going to stop even when it's the day before my birthday.i had a really bad day i got scolded a lot because of my sister whenever i refuse to do something she always throws a tantrum and manipulates them into thinking I'm the one at fault I'm so fuc**** tired of this shi
@I know their always the fact you can tell them that when their both retired and their shi*** daughter wont visit them, remind them you wont visit them either, "because you wont care enough about them to try since they never cared enough about you" oh and when their dead and gone, youll dance on their graves
@I know ignore them close your feelings and Don't show emotions in the house be the ghost and till you become independent and move out I'm rooting for you 💯 💪 😘
@I know favoritism never stops, my mother always loved my sister more than me and even on my birthdays or when I graduated or got my PHD it never changed, it was never enough cause my sister got married to a wealthy man and that is better than me getting a doctorate. Too much about me. Just be yourself, don't base your happiness on your parents approval. I get you, once upon a time all I wanted was my parents love too but it's a toxic love if all they do is humilliate you. If they hurt your feelings you can detach yourself from them emotionally, even if you still live together, you can choose to treat them as people who live with you and not family. Your feelings always come first.
@I know same as my sis.. She is fuc**** witch...( I hate her) Always Brainwash my mom and believe in her fake word's... But everyone knows her well so that type of sh** doesn't work anymore... Btw ... Happy birthday..
Happy birthday. I hope all your wishes, dreams, ambitions, and aspirations come true!
I'm sorry to hear that favouritism is the worst thing. I cannot directly relate to it because I'm an only child. Still, I've had situations where I listened to my friends about situations that they deal with because of the favouritism in their households, so I can only imagine how horrible it must be. I believe that it's best if you remove any expectations you have for your parents or sister to change and realise what they're doing is wrong, because, after all these years, they haven't changed. You don't deserve to put yourself in a position where you have to deal with their bullsh*t and ruin your mental health because of it.
Trust me, moving on and trying to avoid hoping for affection from them will bring you a lot of peace since you'll no longer have to hold any contempt in your heart because of their ignorance and lack of common sense to remember that they have (your parents) have two daughters and not one.
I hope that you'll be able to reply to this thread one day feeling much better and happier. You've done well, take a rest and enjoy your birthday. <3
@Love everyone I hope you get that chance soon, regardless of the reason— if it's enough to make you want to leave your household, then I believe you have every right to try to find a way out.
