@desperate 4607 True enough. At some point I even wondered whether Sejin was capable of showing and giving love. He craved so much for love he looked like an empty vase. And he has such a peculiar way to tell what he wants. In short, what he wants is for Ido to tell him what he (Sejin) wants to hear! Furthermore, what's with all this speech about what Ido should have said and done? I won't judge but it was unexpected and out of place. You can see the contrast between both approaches. Ido's approach was entirely centered on Sejin, whereas Sejin's is centered on himself. Meaning, Sejin is not ready to give and still has a long way to go. Maybe I am wrong but the way he brushed off Ido's suffering like some child's tantrum demonstrates a total lack of warmth and empathy. Such disregard is shocking towards the man who gave him so much and gifted him with something really priceless. I truly expect further progress and that Sejin will realise and aknowledge the lengths Ido went to for him.
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@Lan Anh Nguyen what you said is right that he treat Kwon Ido's suffering as a tantrum but in my opinion i think that he was really dissappointed because kwon ido had given him all he ever wanted but then once his memories of past life came back he left him saying that he can be independent but at that point Ido was the only thing that sejin had which made him feel betrayed. And Ido had not even given him the choice that he can stay with him after apologizing which probably made him feel that this like Ido used this new life to redeem himself for past life for his own satisfaction and not for sejin. And in my opinion this all made sejin not believe Kwon ido's suffering or acknowledge it and becoming confused about it.
@Lan Anh Nguyen Sejin lives internally. He thinks and processes and considers but rarely does any of that get spoken out loud or shared with anyone. It's his greatest flaw. In all the timelines. I don't think he's selfish so much as self centered (if that makes sense) due to how he was abandoned and raised by his adoptive family. Survival meant silence, obedience and minimizing. The only reliable person was himself. But by the third life and seeing how everything went wrong why can't he say something? It's driving me crazy. He must understand that his silence and obedience contributed to past misunderstandings and robbed him of an opportunity for happiness and freedom from his shi*** family. I'm not one for shouting about communication but Sejin surely needs to learn to use his words properly. His internal dialog is wise and caring but his ability to speak remains stunted and weak.