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I confess to my guy best friend, I've been in love with him 2 years ago and he noticed that in my action lately he ask me if i have a feelings for him and i told him the truth. It didn't end up good like the story , well story and real-life is different, now my best friend distance himself to me, he look disgusted with me and always mad to everything I've done. 
I think our friendship won't work anymore like before i know he doesn't like me, but i just want to be honest with my feelings. And i knew from the beginning he sees me just a friend back then.
 Telling him the truth is my mistake 🥲🥲 i think i need to distance my self 🥲 because he always mad at me right now , back then we always talk a lot of useless things, Now whenever i talk to him he keep saying keep it short and never laugh with me anymore.
I guess he really hates me 🥲🥲 he was my first love and im just tired right now. I always wanted to cry but i shouldn't because it was my fault in the first place.
I just hope he can meet someone who will love him the most and cherish him 😞.
I hope he can forgive me 😞😞🥲

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@Just call me Shiki why don't you begin with cherishing yourself first bro .
It's not like you can do anything against having feelings for someone, you can't say it's something wrong and that it's your fault and all.
However, if anyone makes you feel like you're not being loved or gives you these thoughts about yourself, then it's a sign for you to begin distancing yourself for a while from themselves. In this while you can start healing yourself because it feels like you need healing 💞
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simple simpGeneral·1 year ago
@Just call me Shiki frist of all it isn't your fault. you did what you did- love isn't something a person can control. nor should he feel disgusted by it. 
loving someone isn't a mistake nor a fault- he should have understood and move on instead of giving nasty looks at you. 

this isn't your fault- and i agree maybe you should also ignore him. like being mad cus i can't control my feelings. sh** be crazy
@Just call me Shiki  

Good job on mustering courage
give him time to process (it may have come as a huge shock). If he can't handle the truth about you, your friendship wouldn't have worked