@Ilovemanhwaslikethat I didnt say she did. What I DID do was compare her behavior to that of a bullied victim becoming the bully, in the sense that you putting harm unto others isnt justified just because of what you went through, and intent doesnt outweigh impact. Whether she has good intentions or not, the objective truth is she's kicking her sister while shes down, placing responsibility for not being able to stand against her abuser onto her, and being cold and cruel in a situation that doesnt require it. People like you like to equate bluntness with honesty, when that isnt inherently the case. You can be honest, even firmly honest, without being cruel. If the person is worse off than before you spoke to them, you didnt help them no matter what your intent was.
I feel like youre also being weird irt her listening to her dad just because he doesnt know Riftan. It completely ignores the fact that SHE doesn't really know Riftan. Not on a deep level at least. She loves him, but realistically she doesnt know a whole lot about him just due to who he is as a person. Given that this implied time period and society place a lot of weight on the production of heirs, and she's been told her whole life thats where any potential value she has is, its not out of left field shed believe a divorce would follow a miscarriage/lack of heir: BECAUSE ITS HAPPENED. AND ITS HAPPENED WITH PEOPLE FAR MORE POWERFUL, SKILLED, AND SOCIALLY ACCEPTED THAN HER. So combine those two things with her only being out of a 2 decades long abusive environment for...what...a year??? Her doing anything other than this would, quite frankly, be surprising (and a lot less realistic).
I feel like youre also being weird irt her listening to her dad just because he doesnt know Riftan. It completely ignores the fact that SHE doesn't really know Riftan. Not on a deep level at least. She loves him, but realistically she doesnt know a whole lot about him just due to who he is as a person. Given that this implied time period and society place a lot of weight on the production of heirs, and she's been told her whole life thats where any potential value she has is, its not out of left field shed believe a divorce would follow a miscarriage/lack of heir: BECAUSE ITS HAPPENED. AND ITS HAPPENED WITH PEOPLE FAR MORE POWERFUL, SKILLED, AND SOCIALLY ACCEPTED THAN HER. So combine those two things with her only being out of a 2 decades long abusive environment for...what...a year??? Her doing anything other than this would, quite frankly, be surprising (and a lot less realistic).