@lia 4-7 isn't a concerning age gap as adults, that's not the point i was trying to make. i understand where you're coming from because you're right, it is situational, and that's why i explained why it's different when it involves someone like a 19yo with undeveloped social/psychological mindsets. a relationship between a 19 and 26 yo is completely distinct from one of a 26 and 31 yo, for example. both have a similar gap but the dynamic would be completely different for the reasons i stated before. hope that makes more sense!
im dyslexic, in case i make any goofy mistakes :p