he was born with daddy issues

@mina Yun Qi, known for his role in the BL drama "To My Shore," has garnered attention for his relationship with another actor, Hao Yiran. While there are speculations about their relationship. Yunqi, known for his role in the BL drama 'To My Shore,' has addressed rumors about his personal life, clarifying that he currently only has a boyfriend

https://x.com/MuekJup/status/2024894932549599743?s=20

https://x.com/ledglin/status/2021987693346066729?s=20

@historia https://x.com/maafcarisiapa/status/2008504704108818698?s=20

Fan Xiao, being the smug/obsessed-but-now-happy type, loves that Shulang is showing this level of concern — it's proof of how deeply Shulang cares and how much their dynamic has flipped from Fan Xiao's initial control games to mutual deep attachment. So he turns around and brags/teases about it to Shi Lihua like: "Look at my boyfriend, he's so worried he won't even let me ride my bike anymore! He told me ten thousand times already!" I totally get why Fan Xiao wants to do 'that' with him every single day . No it doesn't he's a devil till the end for not leaving him alone just toned down and shulang is an angel for forgiving him
After he's hurt instead of him he has guts to ask him to sleep with him for last time like wth

@historia https://x.com/tempurarie/status/2010518005277729238?s=20 

He's afraid of being hurt / used again — Their past relationship ended badly (Fan Xiao originally manipulated Shu Lang out of revenge/trauma from his own toxic upbringing, leading to deep pain on both sides). Fan Xiao fears that giving in to a single passionate night now would just reopen old wounds — he'd be the one left obsessed and broken when Shu Lang inevitably regrets it or walks away the next morning.
He wants something real and permanent this time — By this point in the story, Fan Xiao has genuinely fallen in love (beyond his initial scheming). He refuses anything less than full commitment because he's terrified of losing Shu Lang again. A ONS would feel like settling for scraps when what he craves is forever ("I want him forever" vibes from fans reacting to the line).
He doesn't want Shu Lang to regret it — Fan Xiao believes (or fears) that Shu Lang is acting on impulse, lu**, or unresolved anger rather than clear-headed love. He tells him he'd regret it afterward, showing a rare moment of self-restraint and protectiveness toward Shu Lang's feelings.
In short: Fan Xiao's "no" isn't about lack of desire — it's the opposite. He's so deeply in love and scarred that he can't risk it being meaningless or one-sided anymore. He holds back precisely because he wants Shu Lang too much, but only if it's real and lasting.

@historia After watching it so many times.. Its clr yunqis first priority is only yiran. Coz we saw it Everytime It was yunqi who looking at Yiran with these yearning eyes.. the possibility of us losing him to the modeling industry will forever terrify me.

IM TIRED OF FANXIAO IM TIRED OF QIN IM TIRE DOF ALL THESE MEN OBSESSED WITH SHULANG LET HIM GOO. Secret admirer, young boss, doting classmates, glamourius heiress THEY ALL WANT A PIECE OF HIM

@historia lso fanxiao seriously deserves more beating he is pushing shulang to the edge to make him accept him. ameras in the entire house, stalking etc. idk, Not Fan Xiao installing cameras in Shulang's place

Spoiler alert:
FYI: In the novel, this scene takes place right after (the night before) Shulang ma****ted in the shower, and needed some back door stimulation. Fan Xiao was watching on the hidden cameras.
Fan Xiao’s comment here is payback for Shulang’s provoking him with the escort.
In the episode, Shulang’s disassociative episode is directly related to him realizing how invasive Fan Xiao is, but also him realizing he is still turned on by Fan Xiao.

@historia https://x.com/MuekJup/status/1999168932159365337?s=20

 they threatened yunqi for too much clingy with yiran coz of chinas fking rules. undergone many problem be4. He fully aware of Yunqi's unsual state, Yunqi was the 1st one who against the word separation. d i think yiran dont wanna split it more than yunqi He said we ve to get bold or we cant fight with the world

https://x.com/sammy_msy/status/2007806946628477383?s=20

@historia 0% Ho*** Fan Xiao,always planning to get Shu Lang's cookies 7days a week. 30% Jealous Fan Xiao beefing with every living organism that dares to breath near Shu Lang especially his ex Fan Xiao even jealous of Shu Langs brother!! orny Fan Xiao is nearly 100% of the time. .this is not fanxiao plan this is shulang brother and father plan...he just using close people names but he will never harm anyone.its his brother fault to get money from shulang he doing himself.. without knowing upcoming don't come to conclusions..after two ep entire story going to change our perspective about fanxiao plz wait

Yiran b like dont stay away from me i cant breath.  Every chance he gets Yeah my man is in love so he cant see my love for him. As y'all heard my man yesterday, YunYi is never going to break up in this life. They are already dating so don't any of you haters mention "break" to my baby Yunqi. He will hunt you down!

https://x.com/ImHeathcliff_/status/1995071809126056021?s=20 FX had a clear motive, but let’s be honest, he didn’t go above and beyond. All he had to do was get some expensive gifts delivered and Zhenzhen thought FX was chasing after him. Zhenzhen would have done the same with anyone else who had money. He simply made things easier for FX.oh Fan Xiao is the dog and I LOVED him saying that to him Zhen is like a flower, a bird and a dying cicada KKKKKKKKKKKKKKK he is sick what a he** of a man

@historia  kinda feel bad for Fan Xiao. I know he is a red flag, it's obvious. But I see the little lonely boy as well. After the break up with You Shu Lang, he constantly asked him if he doesn't want him anymore. He desperately wants someone to love him, even though he is going all wrong about it. He is clearly obsessed with YSL. Yes, Fan Xiao had never been in a romantic relationship or had any sexual relations with anyone before. Shulang is his first and only. That's why Shulang told him "I'll teach you", it's because Fan Xiao was inexperienced in the ways of pleasure and love-making.

@historia Why are heterosexuals so insistent on their sexual orientation? Whether Yunqi has a boyfriend is any of their business? This man born to play fan xiao.. So he keep himself untouched like fan xiao No one can say in book/series that fan xiao character has any dirty past until he meets YSL  FROM Digging his past we can only find funny/unhinged things like this BTW our man had good body in past too. In this clips he looks very lonely   just like fanxiao until he met you shulang and pupu, and now looks very energetic smile , look like in the past they mind they're own business and now they met their perfact partner and comfort, they be digging up his past and this is the only thing they can find bro really was serious abt modeling 

https://x.com/AffanLamiya/status/2018672512591094211?s=20

@Bodo Xiao he don't want to separate from his love nd we also don't want that
 Exactly    Xiao is NOT letting go, and neither are we. Endgame only   ️ this how u make ur partner confirm the relationship to the world from his words unknowingly   so much da** possessive vibes bro was so done with that question hey aren't going apart so it was a indirect message kind off thing that they might work on another series again . Yunqi was SERIOUS when he had Yiran state they wouldn't separate.. His eyes were so intense. You can see Yiran kinda panicked and tried to play it off, but Yunqi was not letting it go until he got the answer he wanted.Yunqi was SERIOUS when he had Yiran state they wouldn't separate.. His eyes were so intense. You can see Yiran kinda panicked and tried to play it off, but Yunqi was not letting it go until he got the answer he wanted.

I truly love the potential for their long future together wherein Fan Xiao has a set of parameters in which he can, in a limited way, break his promise to be good and obedient, because YSL comes up with the best punishments. Lol LBW calling YSL for advice and FX increasing his involvement in his love life to make him stop is absolutelyyyyyyy what would happen. While YSL is just like I know you're the vinegar king but why would you - we were only ever in a fake relationship and that's - well he's not a kid anymore but he was two weeks ago! Fan Xiao, why???? YES TO MOTORCYCLE EXTRA, eeeeeeeeeverything you listed AND the moment where FX confronts YSL on taking that photo of him in the first place and YSL has to admit how hard it was for him to send him away at that point <3 AND FX yelling "YOU SHULANG, I LOVE YOU" after him in a moment of like jubilant adoration for dom!

@historia The motorcycle extra was sooo good! YSL stealing FX's motorcycle! YSL telling FX exactly in which outfit to pick him up!  QZY asking for a hug (he's just a baby) and then fuc**** off to Africa (for some reason). FX faking the motorcycle breaking down just so he could kiss YSL in front of QZY! Thus extra had everything! \Good luck to the kid! The fact that he is LBW's ex wife's little brother makes the whole thing sooo much funnier! And yes, they are such a comical paralel to our mains! LBW will probably be calling YSL every other day (to complain to the only other person who can undestand him), and FX will be covertly trying to help the kid (bcs the sooner the kid succeeds, the sooner LBW will fu** of and stop bothering Shulang). In the end Shulang will probably figure out that FX was involved, and yknow, probably "punish" him, but FX will still think it was worth it hahahhaha.