@Love 8 and actual Chinese people wouldn't ever see ying energy as negative, (for clarification.) and it is actually bad to reject ying energy. (Sorry for the info bomb. I got excited that someone is interested in Chinese culture. I'm very happy about that.
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@Oui_wissal well, I can tell you that Chinese culture is very vast. I did see/read some ...
@Oui_wissal well, I can tell you that Chinese culture is very vast. I did see/read some articles about the positivity/negativity thing, but It may not be the main focus. I think something got lost in translation.(Maybe only in the cultures I've personally experienced? But I'll just tell you the general thing)
Ying refers to something passive, and yang refers to something that is active. These are moreso linked to traits, and are seen as both bad or good if there is too much. I think painting something as strictly negative gives a bad connotationand taichi/wuji is actually also quite prevalent in it's understanding. One is "light" the other is "dark" essentially heat and coldness. What's more important is actually not to paint either one as bad, but to focus on the fact that too much of both isn't good for you.
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@Love 8 as a person who is not Chinese but reads a lot of Chinese work I've always he...
@Oui_wissal as a Chinese person myself, it's actually kinda interesting cause I've never heard of ying energy being seen as negative. (Maybe it's the difference between some parts of Chinese culture? .) Always heard that it's gotta be balanced. There's actually a joke in Chinese gay culture that you can feel the ying energy radiating off of the homos. What you guys are saying is true though. I'm glad things have changed now, especially in how Chinese people view women.
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Ying.. Feminine..'negative'.. Yang.. Masculine...'positive' I see what what chinese ppl w...
It's funny cause those types of people will always be the most hypocritical. You only wanna put someone "in his place" cause they're geniunely beautiful; but they should feel ashamed for that, shouldn't they? Also. Sad he doesn't know his worth. Da**
@Tsuchi maybe the association with both him and Aaron. Aaron said that when he was a child actor, he had no choice; both of them abandoning thier dreams/hope of a bright future and autonomy. Both of their pains can be projected onto the kid. (Just my take on it)
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Bt i really can't understand....why he's bothered with the kid....like I mean i can't understand the...
This is breaking my heart. Atleast this time, you'll have someone waiting for you. They won't betray you again. (Even though there probably might be understandings) TT
Okay I love MLS personality so much, not only did his directness solve the miscommunication in no time, but he's taking care of the kid so ardently. I'm so happy