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The Lotus and the Lost
1 day ago(edited)

lu feng can't even try to make feel yichen what he went through? He said " How it feels to be helpless where none of ur pleas are getting heard and seeing someone whom u love with other person intimate" that's exactly he felt all these years. I don't understand why writers always make their characters suffer this much that death feels like a mercy. That character has to beg his life to make him free of his human body. Now story has surpassed the blame game thing and has reached to the part where they are only inflicting pain to each other specially lu feng because he want yichen to understand how he felt. Why authors have to make their characters fell in love so deeply that even after this much pain they keep falling for each other and only wish to be with each other happily? Did lufeng had prostitution or anyone during his US time? I don't remember but I think no. (But if yichen really did almost forgot lufeng. I know  I don't want to comment on their looks... but you are right, none of them looks even half as pretty as Xiao Chen...  I guess the secretary is deliberately choosing not good looking ones. i think from the first one when lufeng tells him how to act he doesnt sleep with them he just uses them. I guess the secretary is deliberately choosing not good looking ones

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Honey Trouble
2 weeks ago(edited)

so tired of this  

https://www.reddit.com/r/boyslove/s/75TdKJTvKV  Isn't there a rumor that Aylio wants to do the series again, but the funding isn't from MJ, that's why Aylio keeps saying there'll be a second part,
It's always "we" with them and never "I".  but you know that they always want to work together forward and will take every chance to work togethe Show full

 

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The Lotus and the Lost
4 weeks ago(edited)

Coz Yichen knows that as long as he stays single, Lu Feng will never stop chasing him obsessively, so he chooses the most painful way to end it is marrying a woman, which is Zhuo Lan just to force Lu Feng to let him go. But instead of stopping, Lu Feng he only becomes scarier, and even more obsessed with him. Lu Feng realizes that his own obsessive, controlling, and destructive behavior. feel sorry to lu Fang. His try from his best to keep him lover, Although his father angry, hitting him..... Etc . He know if his not follow his father way , his will lose everything But his don't care. His never forget Xiao Chen . Whatever happened to himself or family his never blame to Xiao Chen. Well.... I'd say Yichen was the main cause of everything... His own suffering and pain and Lu Feng's pain and madness.... Lu Feng actually accepted being disowned by his own family that he had to start from the scartch for Yichen, he fell out with his dad and actually caused his death all for Yichen yet Yichen couldn't do the bare minimum of choosing, standing up or talking things out with his own man!???. what about emotionally and mental pain caused by someone you love with all your being?!... It's the worst pain you could ever go through.... I even wonder how Lu Feng never thought of hurting himself.... I'm not justifying his actions but I'd say if Yichen had been honest all this times and at least stood up for his relationship they wouldn't have been this hurt both of them... .then Lu Feng was also willing to kill for Yichen.....

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The Lotus and the Lost
4 weeks ago(edited)
Bro he's cheating with the other man, and he has the audacity to blame Cheng yi Chen ?? Such a hypocrite....
No his is not , misunderstanding

Yes.  Lu Feng is gay.

From their university days onward, his attraction, pursuit, possessiveness, and lifelong fixation are directed exclusively at Yichen. There is no meaningful indication in the novel or the drama that he is attracted to women or identifies as bisexual.  In the story’s context, he is portrayed as a gay man whose love for Yichen defines him

2016 Movies (A Round Trip to Love)He remains completely fixated on Yichen.
No other sexual partners or romantic interests are shown or mentioned during the separation.
His actions after reuniting (fighting his family, later extreme behavior) all stem from that unbroken attachment.

2026 Drama (Double Helix)Same core portrayal: he stays emotionally devoted to Yichen throughout the separation years.
No evidence is given that he had sexual partners while they were apart.
Other men only appear after the reunion, and those interactions are mainly jealousy/manipulation tactics rather than genuine relationships.

So while the novel shows him seeking substitutes, both screen adaptations present him as remaining devoted and loyal to Yichen during the time they were separated.

The fact that he manipulated the message sent by Lu Feng and made Cheng Yi Chen believe that he was leaving permanently. Not only that, he even hid the letters that Lu Feng had been sending to Cheng Yi Chen for years, making Lu Fell fall into despair since Yi Chen didn't reply.

In both the 2016 movies and the 2026 drama, Lu Feng stays loyal and devoted to Yichen for these main reasons:1. It was his first and only real loveYichen was Lu Feng’s first deep romantic and sexual love. The intensity of those early university days left a permanent mark. Once he fell, no one else ever compared.2. Obsessive, all-consuming attachmentLu Feng’s personality is extreme. When he loves, he loves with total focus. Yichen becomes the center of his world — the person he measures everything against. Other people simply do not register on the same level.3. Emotional dependency / inability to let goEven after years apart, the feelings never faded into indifference. Instead of moving on, the separation turned his love into longing, pain, and (later) darker possessiveness. He never truly accepted that Yichen was gone from his life.4. Sense of ownership and destinyFrom early on, Lu Feng treats their relationship as something inevitable and exclusive. In his mind, Yichen belongs with him. This mindset makes the idea of replacing him feel impossible or wrong.
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Honey Trouble - Ch. 59
1 month ago(edited)

He just saw it as another opportunity to re-live his fantasy of a perfect love story. 

In Lu Feng's case, he doesn't really give a damn about keeping Yichen or their relationship a secret.

That's what makes him scary dangerous, I think. The man is acting like he doesn't have anything of value to lose except for Yichen. Threaten to sever his ties with Yichen and he'll do whatever it takes to get it back.

He is already aware that Lu Feng will do anything to get what he wants. Too bad for YIchen, IT IS HIM that Lu Feng wants 🙃

(Again, the guy was obsessed ever since middle school. You'd think he'll let go that easy???)  I think a 20-year span is too big, it feels like they wasted a lot of time in life in the novel. Them reuniting at +30 is perfect. 

 

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Honey Trouble - Ch. 59
1 month ago(edited)

. Lu feng was drunk and he mistook the man as xiao chen 😭😭🤏🏻🤏🏻🖐🏻!!!!! he is very loyal to xiao chen he leave everything behind for him. , he was actively pursuing ycn for the 2nd time, heavy promises,his defense he thought that man was the person he loves thats how down bad he is he's down bad and drunk leave him alone Let me cape for Lu Feng a second: Yi Chen he's sorry. He's just a sad drunk lonely man. Forgive him. This is like that one time you were drunk and you thought Qin Lang was Lu Feng. He's really sorry! this is where he did NOT sleep with any other boys except Yichen. And people forget this part: Lu Feng never cheated. he said he would break yichen legs in order to keep him by his side forever.  i think what's driving him crazy is why yi chen won't get back with him.  

ust imagine they are dating in real woaaaaaaa😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 ik this comes true but only in my dreams 😔 17w51 likesReply @sie_euna honey they are dating .That's what frustrates me the most about the brother! He was the reason Xiao Chen misunderstood Lu Feng in the first place (because he withheld Lu Feng's text that he will come back). That's why even when they reunited, Xiao Chen was very hesitant and insecure, leading to Lu Feng also feeling insecure. He was against Lu Feng from the beginning for no reason. . Meanwhile, Ayden's first kiss onscreeen—both in real life and on screen—was Elio.

https://cnalifestyle.channelnewsasia.com/8days/tvs-next-big-thing-ayden-sng-erhu-playing-godfrey-gao-lookalike-501261?utm_source=chatgpt.com 


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Honey Trouble - Ch. 54
2 months ago(edited)

In the sequel, Lu Feng did most chores related to electricity and heavy lifting... while Xiao Chen did the cooking and cleaning... other people even commented that Lu Feng has been domesticated by Xiao Chen... Also I am happy they didn't follow the novel and lufeng  he used to sleep with various men Some suffering in silence and others couldn’t handle this pain. If Yichen had made the same thing, Lu Feng would have destroyed the entire house 

How is it even possible to love someone so obsessively for years and years without ever looking at anyone else?

Well, that’s why it’s fiction! Despite he loves madly, Yichen manages to pretend in front of him that he has relationships with other men. Man, we all know you've been waiting for this for five years.

 

 

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The Lotus and the Lost
2 months ago(edited)

 Feng become so restless felt painful in a way that went beyond romance 💔🥀. You could see how deeply the fear of losing Yi Chen lived inside him, to the point where even small moments seemed to turn into panic and overthinking. And what made it sadder was that, from Lu Feng’s perspective, this fear didn’t appear out of nowhere—it felt connected to all the times he experienced distance, separation, uncertainty, or felt like Yi Chen was slipping away from him again. That doesn’t mean every reaction he had was healthy or justified, but it made his emotions feel understandable. Seeing someone love so intensely that they start believing every difficult moment means abandonment is heartbreaking to watch. At the same time, what made their story emotional for me is that Yi Chen wasn’t trying to hurt hidon't get why people are constantly arguing over who's the worse person here. Like do y'all even realize how much Lu Feng loved Yichen? The man was ready to leave everything behind for him. He lost his father too. And honestly I get Yichen's POV as well. But at the same time wasn't Yichen supposed to choose Lu Feng too? That's kind of what people in love do. Especially when Lu Feng gave him every assurance he possibly could. I've seen real-life couples choose each other over literally everything. So I can understand why Lu Feng was devastated. And then on top of that he waited for another freaking 5 years. Is what Lu Feng is doing extreme? YEAH, absolutely. But I can't fully blame him either. He was literally abandoned 5 years ago (he didn’t hurt that brother nor the mother intentionally). His feelings of betrayal are completely valid. And Yichen wasn't out there living some perfect life either. They were both hurting in different ways. At the end of the day neither of them is innocent and neither of them is some evil villain. They both made choices that hurt each other and they are both very obviously, painfully in love with each other. So can y'all stop with the "who's worse" debates and just 

 

For responsibility now that i think about it deeply I guess yichen is also suffering of his wrong decision and his toxicity by dealing with lufeng bipolar disorder. Because of he hadn't abandoned lufeng again and again that disease was never going to became that bad. But again that is the tragedy for both of them. .He is always drunk, reminding Yi Chen.