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Terru_chan
Terru_chanChat Legend·2 weeks ago(edited)
@_.laire_.flaire Hi sweetie... I kinda mostly agree with ur comment... I am pretty much sure their "emotional" connection will be further on... BUT... u are very right in saying their connection/"relationship" is just physical now, which is...a shame..

-- what I just wanted to add... - the reason MC is thanking ML over and over again (which is disturbing, obvi) is probably that he himself still see as unneeded... He feels like he's totally lost his purpose from the moment ML dragged him back to this country... he's been feeling useless all the time... he can't give ML children (at least he thinks so...), and when ML's been starting to avoid him... he's been feeling just like a burden... so he's thanking ML not bcs of the s.emen itself (eh, that sounded weird)....but bcs he's "grateful" for being "worthy" of him... overall it's really sad, bcs we are watching a BIG man, a GREAT warrior, who feels INFERIOR all the time... I was happy the last chpt, that he's finally begun to act like a MAN... but now I feel like we're back to square one... as MC's still acting like he's "just fulfilling his duty"... 

- in the end I feel that this whole series didn't really make any big progress in terms of the plot - MC + ML never had a proper conversation from the beginning up to now...so their relationship didn't have any step-by-step development
- well, let's hope that the next season will be more foccused on the chc development :) anyway, thx for ur comment, I always appreciate, when someone is willing to let their thougths out without purposefully shaming the story :)

P.S. sry for the typos, if there are some :D

With love, Terru ❤️❤️❤️
🍓 -- I like strawberries, a lot! No reason --🍓

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@Terru_chan That's the problem with this. The author set up the problem in a way that feels misogynistic (I don't know another word to use, but I hope you get the context). They showed it with s*x as the only answer, whilst relationships where partners feel worthy and trusting of each other are way more than just that. Tei could approach Shuraka, or vice versa, and they could've communicated. At the start, it felt more raw and genuine emotionally, and I enjoyed it. Of course, development still happens, but (to me, at least, others don't have to agree), it feels bland. Stripping Tei of all he was, making Shuraka such a reckless partner throughout the intercourse, it feels like a typical trope where the bottom is powerless (even if shown to be physically dominant, Tei is not mentally dominant). Once again, people have different outlooks on it. But I am growing increasingly agitated by this reckless approach to s*x as the quickest answer to every situation, because that's just not how relationships should be built. Q*r media affects real humans, and it's f**g everyone up. It bugs me a lot, as someone part of the q*r community. Hope I wasn't rude, and thank you for your comment:D It was great.