Comment by BeautyIsPain on Mari

@Mari while I do not disagree with you, you are wrong. This situation is nuanced, and again, is a very common occurrence in s3x.

One person will usually finish before the other person. It's not uncommon for the person who did not finish to continue until they do. It's also not uncommon for someone to pass out/fall asleep after they cvm. Rarely in these situations would either party agree that what took place was grape, precisely because the whole encounter was consensual.

What happened between Ian and Jo was entirely consensual, even if Ian finished and passed out first. And honestly, if Ian were a real person, I'm sure he would tell you the same.

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Mari·1 year ago

@BeautyIsPain No, let's be clear — what Jo did was rаpe. There's no "nuance" in fuсking someone who's unconscious. Consent ends the moment a person is no longer able to give it. If Ian is passed out, he cannot consent. Period.

And this isn't some vague gray area — Ian has already been raped before by David Kim in exactly the same way: when he was unconscious and defenseless. Doyak showed us those flashbacks right after Jo did the same thing in the tent not by accident, but to make it crystal clear that what happened was a violation.

Trying to excuse that as "common in s**" is disgusting. You're normalizing rаpe and calling it "realism". There's nothing romantic or justifiable about what Jo did. It was rаpe. Call it what it is.

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