@suikerplum Pia you make some good points, what happened after the poisioning incident yeah that was warrented-i meant more of the cruelty BEFORE hand. and understandable that someone dosen't want excessive feeling thrown at them. Though it is unfair to put that hatred on someone just because she's from a family they hate(beofore the poisoning incident), things are'nt so black and white thsts true but but with the rather negative interactions they had with another I'd still say their nor trust worthy