@starrystar Look, I've never said anything about "only one way". I didn't even elaborate on therapy cases. Sure, all people are different, hence the difference of how hard the weight of their trauma hits them.
Back to our love birds: Garam in fact sticks to his traumatizing experience from the past, and even transfers his way of enduring that pain on Jaehyuk (s. their short exchange on getting outed equals to misery). Jaehyuk is completely other type though, that's what Garam cannot grasp. And that's where Jaehyuk's strength lies: if you yourself view smth as NOT a problem, then it ISN'T a problem. That's very psychological. That's where Jaehyuk is steering Garam.
Back to our love birds: Garam in fact sticks to his traumatizing experience from the past, and even transfers his way of enduring that pain on Jaehyuk (s. their short exchange on getting outed equals to misery). Jaehyuk is completely other type though, that's what Garam cannot grasp. And that's where Jaehyuk's strength lies: if you yourself view smth as NOT a problem, then it ISN'T a problem. That's very psychological. That's where Jaehyuk is steering Garam.