@Tetiana
Garam has the Trauma, Jae has NO Trauma, but a boyfriend with a Trauma. Huge difference!
Of course he can have a lighter, relaxed and more positive attitude towards that said (not his!)Trauma.
Traumata, Depression and PTSD are not things you can "heal" with just a "positive mindset/ outlook on life".
Saying that is trivializing the suffering of all people who experience it. It's even paired with the notion of making these people the culprit of their pain, it becoming their fault in the eyes of people who use these kind of discourse. Quite sickening.
NoOne is sticking to their trauma because they want to.
Garam has the Trauma, Jae has NO Trauma, but a boyfriend with a Trauma. Huge difference!
Of course he can have a lighter, relaxed and more positive attitude towards that said (not his!)Trauma.
Traumata, Depression and PTSD are not things you can "heal" with just a "positive mindset/ outlook on life".
Saying that is trivializing the suffering of all people who experience it. It's even paired with the notion of making these people the culprit of their pain, it becoming their fault in the eyes of people who use these kind of discourse. Quite sickening.
NoOne is sticking to their trauma because they want to.