Comment by Kokoro on Tetiana

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Kokoro
KokoroComment Senpai·2 months ago
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@Tetiana
Garam has the Trauma, Jae has NO Trauma, but a boyfriend with a Trauma. Huge difference!

Of course he can have a lighter, relaxed and more positive attitude towards that said (not his!)Trauma.

Traumata, Depression and PTSD are not things you can "heal" with just a "positive mindset/ outlook on life".
Saying that is trivializing the suffering of all people who experience it. It's even paired with the notion of making these people the culprit of their pain, it becoming their fault in the eyes of people who use these kind of discourse. Quite sickening.
NoOne is sticking to their trauma because they want to.
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@Kokoro Except for our Garam! He does keep sticking to his bad experience from the past. And Jaehyuk (quote) "can have a lighter, relaxed and more positive attitude towards that said (not his!)Trauma" NOT because he didn't experience it himself, BUT because he doesn't give a da** about what other people (might) think of him being gay and out! Whereas Garam is kind of ashamed about being gay, like he doesn't accept himself the way he is. That's more about self-esteem issues, not traumata.