Comment by Rick D Roll on Prinzinc

@Prinzinc Good to hear that in your case "your family method works", now that we are talking about ancestors, my grandpa dated a lot in his young days, grandma dated 3 guys (and I know this because grandma told me stories of her young days and how one of my uncles almost got a name of one of my grandma's ex hahahaha), one of my uncles ran away from home with his first love when they were 16 and 17 and to this day they are happily married with 5 kids, other of my uncles did what you said, they were having a good life and were such a good couple until my uncle started to make money and his wife cheated on him so they divorced with two kids, dad and mom dated around, and they are still together to this day, so your flawless method and  "success story" isn't the only way, I've seen the good thing you are talking about and it worked for one of my uncles and for the other it didn't I've also seen the evil you are preaching about and I see no evil in this, other than your prejudice.

You are defending your side because that's what worked for you and your family however the other side also works, so saying that people "won't listen to success stories" is just you inflating your own ego, cause there's no perfect method in this life and your success story is just of the thousand success stories with different methods, you can see happily married open marriages, happily married people who dated a lot when they were young, happily married people who are married to their first love, happily married people who broke things, dated around and then life brought them back together, and so on.