@Thato Mashigo this comment is so offensive, it's almost violent. Saying that anyone wants to be sexually assaulted is insulting. Did you ever think that maybe Dan is just fuc**** traumatized? He completely lost his livelihood to a sicko who couldn't handle rejection. He was forced to take the deal with Jaekyung because he needed money to survive and to pay for his grandmother's treatment. That doesn't give Jaekyung the right to assault him. He literally threatened to beat Dan up if he didn't go along with it. And now Dan feels indebted to Jae because he saved him from being assaulted by those thugs and paid off his debts. He didn't ask for any of that sh** to happen to him, and he sure as he** doesn't deserve to be treated the way he is treated by Jaekyung. You need help.
Comment by BeautyIsPain on Thato Mashigo
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@BeautyIsPain I am all for having a healthy debate. However all you have done here is attack me as a person- (which I find quite rude but we'll leave that for another day) and provided mostly incorrect information to disprove my findings and substantiate your own.
1.Now I will agree with you that Jae is sadistic- definitely not disagreeing there. But you said Jae "threatened " to beat Dan up- and that never happened and I'll challenge you to give me the exact episode where Jae explicitly said to Dan "I will beat you up if you don't accept my proposition "
2. Never in my comment did I say Dan deserves the treatment he's getting from Jae- just only that taking into account the previous two instances- we all saw him explicitly and vehemently reject and refuse the sexual assault attempts so clearly he has the capability to refuse/reject if he doesn't want to.
3. You used the word "force"- which from my understanding means not giving someone a choice or an option to refuse and like I mentioned in my second point- Dan was able to make a choice regarding those previous attempts so if he truly truly didn't want to he could have refused.
4. Dan and his grandmother have always been in debt- so the matter of his financial situation is not anything new- yet he still managed to "survive"- so I'm not understanding what you mean when you imply that accepting Jae's proposition was the only choice Dan had.
So in conclusion to reiterate my initial point- Dan had a choice and the choice he decided to take was to accept Jae's proposition. We can debate about the semantics of morality and whether or not Jae is nice to Dan and treats him like a Princess- but you can't say is that Dan was forced or threatened. The evidence disproves your theory.
So good day to you.
1.Now I will agree with you that Jae is sadistic- definitely not disagreeing there. But you said Jae "threatened " to beat Dan up- and that never happened and I'll challenge you to give me the exact episode where Jae explicitly said to Dan "I will beat you up if you don't accept my proposition "
2. Never in my comment did I say Dan deserves the treatment he's getting from Jae- just only that taking into account the previous two instances- we all saw him explicitly and vehemently reject and refuse the sexual assault attempts so clearly he has the capability to refuse/reject if he doesn't want to.
3. You used the word "force"- which from my understanding means not giving someone a choice or an option to refuse and like I mentioned in my second point- Dan was able to make a choice regarding those previous attempts so if he truly truly didn't want to he could have refused.
4. Dan and his grandmother have always been in debt- so the matter of his financial situation is not anything new- yet he still managed to "survive"- so I'm not understanding what you mean when you imply that accepting Jae's proposition was the only choice Dan had.
So in conclusion to reiterate my initial point- Dan had a choice and the choice he decided to take was to accept Jae's proposition. We can debate about the semantics of morality and whether or not Jae is nice to Dan and treats him like a Princess- but you can't say is that Dan was forced or threatened. The evidence disproves your theory.
So good day to you.