Comment by Arty on Sun Kindergarten Classmates - Chapter 53

@Arty

@Arty

@Arty let me ask u this, say somebody told u they read straight romance, would u find them weird? Say somebody told you, they read yaoi, would U find them weird?
What about it is making u feel it's weird. The fact that's between men? the fact that it's a kinda love that is not accepted everywhere yet?
The only difference between straight romance and yaoi is that there will be no girl, instead it'll be a man, and realistically there will be no biologically born kids, though you can adopt. Other than that, it's all the same love in the end of the day, differing in how one expresses it.
I don't blame you honey. I don't tell about the stuff I read and like and support to everybody unless they do it, too, or are those with no prejudice or willing to hear out about ur viewpoint. The rest use your words to badmouth you.
In fact, I didn't have much of an opinion about gay romance, until I tried gay romance. One of the reason I love it cuz you can find couples on equal footing on all terms, also the prejudice of gender wouldn't come into play.
If you still want to talk, I'm willing to respond if I see it.

nah, it's not weird. I think it's even weirder to judge people's hobbies. I don't think so many people would be reading yaoi if it were "weird," and even if it is, let us be weird. Being weird is cool.

Sorry accidentally clicked on it, before adding my comment

And also, just realised you are a boy, I'm not trying to badmouth you here but it's common. Boys in general are run on pride, so u'll find boys criticize anything that could slightly girl preference, as degrading. 
In fact, boys are more likely to criticize kpop, men wearing make up, men be stylish outside the standard masculine style, reading romance, or not liking sports much, etc. It's in a way a need to appear the most masculine.
All am I gonna say is enjoy what u enjoy, cuz if you have to cut of your interest one by one to fit in and to make friends, then it's better not to be friend. Because as you go on you may have to fake far too often to the point, that you may lose yourself. I'm saying this as a previous loner, because nobody had my interests and thought along my wavelength, now, I've best friend.
Also, feel free to talk, if you felt uncomfortable with anything I said, Say it.
Don't suppress it, you are not obligated to be nice to me.
HAVE A NICE DAY😚

@BABY GIRL

hey at first thank to your reply! and I to be honest I like bl (like this weird one is my favorite). I'm bi so I didn't think it's was weird at all and this friend I was talking about know I'm bi and don't care much. But idk He said it with so much confidence that I felt like it's was wrong in someway. 

to the context we were sitting on your lunch with another friend of us (we had French fries) and my friend said he was still hungry, so I saw a boy from another section (he is trans, I don't really like his vibe but I just don't paid attention to him) and he has some French fries left, so I told to my friend to just go ask him about if he could take it if he was still hungry. And then he look at me and said seriously"nah I won't ask to him, like he read yaoi every night" with a big mock condescending tone, another of my friend laughed. And I was just lost I I also read yaoi every night and I never told myself is was this weird (like we know us somethimes is has ra**, boy with very young face with old man, insect x human like right now, but is the same is straight manwha! It's just style and now the whole thing).
I love my friend he is really a ... nice person when he want it and he didn't knew I read yaoi (I'm sure he wouldn't be this harsh is he knew it) but for a moment I just felt uncomfortable. 

sorry it's was so long for nothing. But thank you very much for your reply I feel less uncomfortable or really weird.
and it's so nice you could meet people who like the same things as you! I hope is would happen to me someday.
Have a nice day too :D

(to end the story another friend ask some times after to the guy who read yaoi for his French fries and he said he was just slow to eat, so any of us one get them and my friend still was hungry after lunch).

@Arty honestly, very honestly, I as someone born into Islam and lives in an Muslim country, it is seen as a very disgusting and gross thing, it is a sin to be gay or to read things like this, so I get where your coming from and where your friend might be coming from, tbh it's not weird atleast in my opinion unless you're like those weird girls that are obsessed with yoai in a weird way, reading bl is my biggest secret LMAOAOA

@Arty like Devil Devil, I'm also born into muslim household, in India. And people can be very strict about something that could be even slightly demasculanizing😑. 
That can attitude can happen, have talked with friends who find men in kpop gross, cuz they acting like woman, but all in all they were nice people general, I just ignored unless their opinion actually affects somebody. I just chose to stay friends. 
Maybe you can try to poke around and find out if your friend is willing to listen to your side, or you can just accept that he is like that. If he is willing accept, just make sure he is doing so because he genuinly accepts it, instead of doing it to make you happy. And opinion or persona made to satisfy somebody won't last long. 
Always be true to yourself
Bye, have a nice day😋