Comment by Ren on Nis Oka

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@Nis Oka You really don’t understand how a lot of sexual abuse survivors act. To a fair amount of them, that is something familiar and comforting. Is it a long term fix? No. Is it healthy? Also no. But these are two traumatized guys and I genuinely can relate to this. 

Chronically done with all this bullshit

I also don't understand why so many straight women read BL... genuinely confused because there's also a a lot of them bragging about it for some reason?

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Mary
Mary·5 days ago(edited)

@Ren Gyeol as far as we know is not an SA survivor though, and he is the one initiating every sexual encounter. In this chapter u can see the bottom is afraid as soon as Gyeol initiates se/x. If Gyeol had any emotional intelligence and compassion, he would at least take a second to think about how his actions might affect the bottom … but he doesn’t. He just goes for it immediately every time, even when he’s given resistance. It’s frustrating and sad 

@Ren I also don’t say any of that to invalidate your experience. But what we are being shown here is not what ur describing. The bottom is completely at gyeol’s mercy. He has had basically no say in what is being done to him, and Gyeol doesn’t know if what he’s doing is comforting him or not. He just does it.