Comment by Cocoa on Semantic Error - Chapter 76

@Cocoa  honestly i don't think its ok to go with a guy who has a gf even if he says that stuff abt not feeling loved bc at the end of the day he can break up with her and it kinda feels like an excuse to cheat from an outside perspective.

@Cocoa girl u need to stay away from him he's toxic guy... He flirt with you and still have his girlfriend no u deserve better than him... Keep your distance with him put some lines in your relationship with him and look for a nice guy there's many fish in the sea u know 😉
Good luck 😘

@Cocoa  i dont really know the situation but i had something similar. Seems like he prob has been with his gf for a long time and foes not wanna break it off with her as some sort of sympathy. But i am gonna ve honest one year is too much for you to deal with this. So you can just make it clear to yourself and him. I know you are worried about the fact that he is also your best friend but st this point there is no going back cuz ur hurting urself in the process of trying to keep the friendship and having feelings for him. Thid guys seems undecided on what he wants and i dont think it is you who has to "make or help" him decide what to do cuz the outcome will be blamed on you. So what i suggest and what i did aswell is be strict on ur feelings. Tell yourself this is where you stop. If the possibility arises you can talk it out with him so you will have a better closure. At the moment me and that guy dont talk anymore and i feel good that way cuz being like a rebound ( him callin and flirting with me even tho i thinkhe did not have any feelings towards me AND was also with a girl at the time) was definitely bad. So yeah you have to think of yourself first and your wellbeing. Hope this helps❤️ Good luck and update if you want to talk it more..

@Fjoo99 wow you really just described my situation.  I've been trying to do I for so long but I wasn't able to but I think I should try cutting him off from now on 
And I'll update you if something happens 😭 . Can we be friends? I'm sorry I just needed someone to talk this out with coz everyone else in our friend group knows this guy also knows the situation still doesn't say anything [they just don't know that I like him]

@Smuttylittlebxtch I think so too, he's so stupid , also his excuses

@Sam Zaki okay ma'am 😙 
Thanks a lot guys 😭

@Cocoa I genuinely believe it's importante for you to distancie yourself from anyone that doesn't make you feel like the only one, not even the first option. 
This guy doesn't want to be with you or else he would be, meaning he wouldn't be dating anyone else. Honestly, it seems like he's just a cheater, "i don't feel loved by her anymore" then why is he STILL there? I bet he's the type of guy who cheats because "I just needed smth new" and then be heartbroken because "I let go of the one".

@PrivateMe   Thanks a lot ❤️, I was talking to him few time back he was so sweet and all 
Everytime I decide I'm gonna drop him and move on 
He does something so sweet , my resolve just breaks 
Like he once wrote a whole a** letter of 5 to 6 pages explaining how important I was to him 
Today, just Coz I was ghosting him for 6 or 7 hours he called and texted me to to check up on me and wrote so many paragraph saying how worried he was 
But yea I'll move on this time 
@Fjoo99

@Cocoa  of course we can. We can talk about it i dont mind. I think you should.. tbh in my case it dragged for wayy less but still i was feeling like sh** so cutting him off felt so good
p.s i am really glad the comment helped even if it is just a little

@Cocoa  it is their strategy tbh. Before the dude i told u about i had a bf and we were together for 4 1/2 years. He was quite the jealous type but i did not mind thinking that was his way of showing love. Fast forward to last year where i had to move to brussels for studies adn he went to italy to work and he literally started another relationship with a girl there WHILE acting jealous with me. I talked to him about breaking up cuz i had a bad feeling about everything and his werid behaviour but he still denied everything and acted like he loved me. So yeah it is their tactic. They have the "one" who is like the main girl they are in a relationship in and the other girl is like a side one anytime he wants to.. they go back to main one cuz yeah they r sick psychos