@Prinzinc Brother, no one here has said anything about the expectations or “expected behavior” of men or women. But you were the one repeatedly explaining how a woman supposedly has to behave or what characteristics she needs to have in order to be loved by men or chosen as a partner. And the fact that you never once discussed what a man should be or what the characteristics of an “ideal man” are makes it understandable why some people might misunderstand your point.
After all, you've written paragraphs upon paragraphs criticizing a female celebrity and then generalized your own ideal type of woman as though those are the qualities all men in the universe want. 
And please don't misunderstand my comment. I genuinely believe you're free to criticize whoever you want and express whatever opinions you want online. You have that freedom, just as I have the freedom to disagree with the way you express those opinions.
My only problem is that sometimes you make it sound as though everyone here believes women can do whatever they want without consequences, while men are supposedly stuck carrying all the responsibilities and expectations. But that's not what anyone here has been saying in the first place.
At least from my side, I haven't said anything about what men should or shouldn't do, what their responsibilities are, or what their “expected behavior” should be. And I certainly don't support recklessness from women any more than I would support it from men.
I simply think you have a rather harsh way of expressing your opinions, and that's what creates friction in the conversation. You are free to have your opinions, brother. I'm just equally free to think that some of the ways you express them are unnecessarily harsh.
Comment by Kiki on Prinzinc
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That's a lot of tone policing right there. If you understand my point, then it's up to you to be mature enough to control your emotions and reactions. That's partly how you "adult".
And Kiki, once again you are talking about of both sides of the conversation here. Your position on anything is so fluid that it's impossible to know what you actually think. Do you or don't you think that men and women have duties or not? If yes, then please list the duties that you think they have. You complain that I don't know what your position is while also making it impossible to know what your position is so I'm forced to estimate it based upon what I've read so far. If you aren't planning to make a solid position than you can't complain when I give you the benefit of the doubt and assume the most reasonable position out of the many options (even if that position is very bad overall).
Regarding the previous discussion, I'm not making things up here. Men and women have different things that they want from the other gender. Generally speaking, it's usually only woman who don't know this as they tend to be too blinded by the fact that they are the biological "sexual selectors" and are being chased during their early years that they don't even realize that men want different things than they want. On the other hand, since men aren't the sexual sectors, they generally figure out what women want early on and spend the better part of their life appealing to the things that women desire in order to raise their own sexual market value (SMV). Although what people want does somewhat vary from person to person, biologically men still want certain things and women want other things. This doesn't make either of these people the "ideal" of their gender, but it does make them "ideal" to the majority of the opposite sex in the sexual marketplace.
@Kiki I completely agree. Just deduction based on one sentence that didn't even said anything about men, this dude thought of something I didn't even thought. Isn't this overthinking? Or maybe just triggered?