"so how is he supposed to just get it" simple, get the freaking hints. She doesn't owe him the full story, she's telling him "please don't contact my parents" and has an extreme reaction every time he does. She sets a boundary and he steps all over it because he has no respect towards it if it breaks his "family so important" philosophy. And he knows she has issues with setting boundaries! He literally knows she had s** with him only because she saw it as a duty, and overall got her agency taken by Hiro. Which means he has to know saying "please don't" is a big deal for her.
She doesn't love him, it's literally in the text. She says "I want to love him" but compares him to Hiro all the time and finds him lacking. They don't have either romantic or sexual chemistry and it's clear she doesn't like him like that, she just finds him nice and wants to be good for him.
"Why is she leading him on , because even a blind person can figure out how much he loves her!"
Um, that's his problem? Did you read the manga with your eyes closed? He proposed to her because he saw her and Hiro, and promised to help her. There was no talk of anything else. If he can't handle it, it's on him and him alone because he's literally the one who has gotten himself in this situation. Airi on the other hand was placed in abuse all her life. I don't know why you're dickriding that guy so hard.
@EyeRoll "i swear to g** we are not mind readers, and just expecting us to get it when u give us no context, " Your partner has a panic attack when talking about someone, and tells you not to talk to them. You genuinely have to be an idiot if you're missing it. Or just not care. And he notices her attitude. He calls it "not normal" and "broken". Great fuc**** person that one.
"When u guys have trama , u go to a therapist and talk to them and all that therapist does is sit back and listen to u , instead , why not go to someone who genuinely care about u , and confide in him .." Tell me you haven't been in therapy either without telling me. Therapists don't just sit there and listen to you. They have skills they share that make you develop healthier copying skills, and "right" thinking about the situation. Loved ones don't. And you know what the worst-case scenario is then? They defend the abuser. They think you're a dirty sl**. Like Airi's mom. That literally happened to her and you're wondering why she doesn't want to say anything? Hiro literally had to beat and ra** that information from her. Her whole defense mechanism is denying herself the experience. You're genuinely a child if you're still saying "omg why won't she just disclose the worst experiences of her life to him, even after her own mom shamed her for it!". Like be fr.
