@Kokoro Except for our Garam! He does keep sticking to his bad experience from the past. And Jaehyuk (quote) "can have a lighter, relaxed and more positive attitude towards that said (not his!)Trauma" NOT because he didn't experience it himself, BUT because he doesn't give a da** about what other people (might) think of him being gay and out! Whereas Garam is kind of ashamed about being gay, like he doesn't accept himself the way he is. That's more about self-esteem issues, not traumata.