I've already written a similar comment for another bl and i'll repeat myself.... There is no respect for your child or for the father , if you decide to hide something like this ( and joshua makes it clear that he has no intention of telling even his son. obviously the child is too young for such conversation right now, but joshua implies that he doesn't plan on telling anyone, even in the future..so i think...) Speaking from personal experience , no matter how unconditionally a child loves his parent, they will always have the "missing" parent on their mind. You can shower a child with unconditional love, but there will always be a void in them... and the fact that is a parent who denies the existence of the other is truly disrespectful toward the person you claim to love ( your child ), sometimes you want to protect someone and you don't realize you're creating a deep wound... obviously every situation is different and some might be so tragic they require such an action.. but there isn't a child who won't wonder who the other parent was, what they were like, how things could have been, and above all, wonder if it's their fault - if their very existence was somehow a " mistake " . This is just my personal thought, of course; everyone is entitled to their own opinion...
Maybe this is a subject i feel too strongly about....😑
Maybe this is a subject i feel too strongly about....😑
