Comment by Dayum on Loejiff

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Dayum
DayumGeneral·1 year ago
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@Loejiff yeah I get your point but I think both are at fault, even though Garam agreed to be with Jaehyuk, but his also not communicating well with him, yes I get that for some it's already a struggle to be with someone, but if you truly love the that at least try to communicate with someone or talk to a therapist, because bottling your emotions from past experiences can really damage what happening in the present and only hurt you in the long run... That's why sometimes you gotta let go, and talk to each other even tho it may be though it will be for the better

On the other hand I total agree with what Jaehyuk is feeling, it's frustrating to maintain your relationship if your significant other is not reciprocatating you're feelings, it hurts too you know, (because I've been there before too)... 
But sometimes you just gotta clear your head talk to your significant other and give each other time or space if needed and also communicate cuz that's really important too, and just wait cuz you can both heal with time ❤

(Sorry if that was too long, cuz I got nothing better to do lol) 

(Sorry to if some sentences seems of hehehehe but I hope you get my point)
Awugga

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@Dayum totally agree with you esp on jaehyuks part. in brief it's a pride matter ngl poco sticker 
actually, what you said opened a way new route to me, kinda shiny. 
to me personally therapists are not some emotional douch bags, but a key to learn what science and logic applies on human actions and all typs of analysis behind them as im not and will never be well acknowledged enough (idk why i turned nerdy ;-;) 

what im tryna say anyways is the other person and me person always have a inner fight all the time leading to feeling puzzled and stressed for not knowing the next step (which who knows what change it will cause ) while im not referring to partner but any relationship in general. thus prefer to act like what the past tells me to, in fear of enduring any kind of pain.

who knows 🤔 i never experienced a love relationship cuz erm.. never dated lol and am ok with it till i find the inner peace or heal as you mentioned bunny sticker
thanks for helping and for reading my comment ♡