@Daniel nope. Authors just like milking the symptoms of these disorders to gain sympathy points for awful characters. If we imply the inevitability of shi*** behaviour from people with ASPD, it also justifies the actions of abusers with these symptoms (Like they can't control themselves). When the reality is that they're a bad person, and they also struggle with, for example, emotional regulation

@Daniel he's actually just a bad person. Let's not further stigmatise the disorder.

@Kiyo monoro Ichigo mina no, the coach is justifying his sexual desires towards his subordinate. He is a rapist nonetheless and is not to be sympathised with

@Shadow laws ofc i think the women in these settings are the victims? When did I suggest they wouldn't be? I pointed out the absurdity in you justifications because you're blaming the VICTIM of someone else's incompetence. And an example of sexual abuse that's trending is "bull riding". I think the very fact you consider this concept nonsensical is proof that you believe that your own personal experiences with sexuality overrides the discrimination women actively face during sexual intimacy, ofc, along with your latter statements.

@Shadow laws the message of the series goes entirely over your head if you wonder in with a victim mentality. That's why I said leave. Bit of a dramatic misread.

And victim is an accurate descriptor, regardless of how you feel about it. For some reason, you think women are the reason for their own discomfort when there are multiple phrases made by men to describe sexual experiences not in women's favour. There is a constant disregard for women's comfort/safety that forbids women from expressing personal interest in a sexual setting, especially when it doesn't align with men's pornographic desires. So no, it's not "she should just talk about it, men are simple creatures".

@Shadow laws if you're reading this with the mindset that men are victims to women's lack of communication/overcomplication, just leave.

@Pyobi07 dreaming of the dokaebi [Yaoi] , dysfunctional family [BL] , tiger vs tiger [BL] , half of me [Suggestive BL] , no love lost lady [Yuri] , tough love at the office [Yuri] , ameiro paradox drop [Yaoi] , afterglow [Yaoi] , hatemate [Suggestive Yaoi] , semantic error [Suggestive bl] 

Sorry if it seems like I'm not matching your exact ideas of these themes. Also, some of these have dub-con scenes, so do ask me about it if it really bothers you (though I tried my best to avoid anything particularly uncomfortable)

@fujoshitrash yh, the comments need to give our mc a break, man.

I've somewhat misread you're statement, so I'm repeating a few things you've said, but you get my point. The top is not behaving reasonably, he is just rationalising his outbursts

@Kaji not really. He's not behaving in this manner because of their deal surrounding exclusivity, but because he's emotionally invested in their relationship and jealous. Since their deal was "no attachments", he's getting stressed over his own conditions, and has no security around the permanency of their relationship. He's yet to realise his feelings, so he grasps onto straws like "we had a deal, but you're sleeping around" when that's not the case at all, he just doesn't like being second to someone recognised as a close companion

@Pul Biber who ??

@MingOverload I read it on webnovel.com. if you want to continue where you left off, I reccomend ch 153