Why are so many fathers creating sons they are not willing to raise properly??? This is why your son is so violent. He gets no actual fathering from you.
And the brother's failed marriage was probably the result of not having a good role model to begin with. Sigh. It's fiction, but a lot of it happens in real life that it's triggering.
I really gotta remind myself that the characters are in high school, so yes, these weird reactions are normal for that age. They look old enough to be my co-faculty, is why I keep forgetting.
But thankfully, it's a chapter where Chiwoo doesn't get harassed. Whew.
To be honest, this is the first time I have gotten into an argument in the comments section of a manhwa. 😂 I'm about 3 years away from being 50 years old, but someone got offended getting called "children" and when in fact, anyone below 30 is a kid to me. (And I also sounded like some of them when I was 13, so.)
To be fair, I was a bit shocked that people were stanning men whom I wouldn't let near me, my students, or my friends in real life. This author is pretty good at getting reactions, because now I'm looking at the comments the way I'd look at case studies.
bromancelover69: the ammount of angry faces i see in the comments scare me
I have the same worries. I'm in my 40s, almost in my 50s. Anyone who is under 30 is a kid to me, but I do remember stanning toxic male protagonists in my teens. Though I was lucky, I saw some of my students (college) date these type of guys. I was kinda taken aback because some of the toxic men, whom I didn't even realize were abusive, were some of my outstanding/popular students. They were just so afraid to seek help, especially the strong women and strong gay men, wouldn't reach out until it was too late. Hurts to see that they blamed themselves.
kyoonchuu: it's just tragic how the fu** you like someone this way? I know there's a lot of young gir
OK, I'm having war flashbacks of that time when my friend was hurt by his boyfriend, and he bled. Needed stitches. Yawa.
I'm not a stan of any of the love interests here. I just want to hug my Chiwoo. No one respects his boundaries.
But I'm also wondering why the author chose the blond guy to be so insistent and clingy. Did she know someone in real life who was silently crying for help, but couldn't, and wished that there was someone who insisted on helping out? Because when this happened to one of my friends, I didn't want to interfere/overrule the boundaries, and now I'm kinda sorry that I didn't.
As for getting dislikes daily, *hugs with consent*, I stopped giving a sh*t when I turned 40. A lot of young girls would hate what I'm saying now, and I get it, because I've been one of them at some point (thought abuse, in the guise of getting forcefully kissed, was romantic).
Guys who resort to violence as first reaction really are scary. Who knows when that violence gets used on you?
I'm trying to remember that these boys are in high school (because they look older than my students, and mine are in college). They are literally just kids, so I could understand Chiwoo not knowing how to deal with Jihyun's daily confession. I was in my 30s when I first learned how to deal with people's feelings.
But it's difficult to fix a man whose first response to everything is violence. Where are this guy's parents?
Lauren2609: No offence, but the dark haired guy is a bas****. The fact that he thought it was okay to not only a
I think the author is onto something. Because I've met guys like Jihyun, and they're super attractive. My friends and students who date these type of guys don't know they are being manipulated until the trauma has been done, and they've had to undergo therapy. (They thought all these jealous outbursts were romantic.) They've been isolated from friends, gaslit to death, until they start questioning themselves. It takes a steady self-esteem to be able to shake yourself out of that. Oh, and these guys tend to be extremely popular, so yes, even IRL people will defend them.
kyoonchuu: i swear to g** if jihyun was an ugly guy not even half of these bit**** would defend his attitudes [
sure. [poco:0] OK. I'm not wise. I just encountered people like that black-haired guy IRL. Some of them are even parents to my (college) students. And some were actual boyfriends of my students. Lots of them around. I'm actually quite surprised that people fall for these guys and then later have to go through so much therapy after all the trauma.
u so stupid : @Doc B Lapa (skysenshi) omg you are really just an immature narcissistic individual who l
yeah, apparently playing with another girl's feelings and treating that girl as a toy makes handsome men seem more masculine. I'm actually rather curious about the author's psyche (she nails the narcissistic, abusive hot guy so close to reality, I'm amazed so she probably knows people like this IRL), and I have a hypothesis, but I'll wait till the end game is revealed.
floppy turkey dikc: if anyone actually still likes him after this I'm actually genuinely concerned bc wtaf??
Majority of my friends are gay men (I'm bi myself), and some of them have ended up in the hospital because of boyfriends like the black-haired dude. So yes, I understand why it's difficult to read these comments. I cringe, too.
And it's so difficult to look for material written by actual gay people, so that we don't have to sift through all the fetishization of them.
Thatdepressedblobsessedbitch: Bro I feel like I can't even comments on this because all of the comments are just about how everyon
I also get the feeling that Chiwoo's trauma came from the hot guy. Hence the panic attacks.
I wish the author would come up with a character that doesn't violate anyone's personal space because these two (ML and hot guy) have been doing that, with hot guy being worse because he has all the signs of an abusive person.
Children can down vote this comment all they want, I'm just gonna laugh. It means they've read my comments all over this manhwa, and someday they're all going to remember that at one point, they loved red flags. (But I do hope, for their sake, that if they encounter a man like hot dude in person, they'd know how to run the other way.)
White flower : Honestly I seriously don't understand why y'all like that black haired mother****** the blonde haire
I find it funny that children think it's not ok for the blonde guy to grab your hand, but it's perfectly OK for the good looking dude to force a kiss on you, isolate you from possible friends, bully everyone who tries to get close to you, be disrespectful of rules. And even when it is clear that MC gets anxiety and mild panic attacks from the good looking guy's presence, it's perfectly OK. Because he's good looking. Yep. Children.
And this other guy has all the makings of a narcissistic gaslighter.
Abusers separate you from people because they want your world to revolve around them. Until you are isolated, and then you will be treated like property.
People who dislike your comment are kids who haven't seen the world.
Tamaca: Bro I saw ppl saying puppy dog guy was too obsessed and clingy BUT SINCE THAT OTHER DUDE SHOWED UP I
